Recently I was talking to a single who was sharing their frustration of “finding someone” they could trust. Because of things they had seen as a child in their parents relationship (which ultimately ended in divorce) this young “single” was having a real problem in this area. How important is trust in a relationship to you? What happens when the trust factor is broken? Do you think it can ever be regained once it has been lost? Let me know what you think about it? Looking forward……
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I can understand where that individual you had a conversation with is coming from. To me trust is everything. Its the foundation that relationships are built on and for me if I don’t have trust in my relationship, I feel that its doom to fail. When that trust is broken I’m not sure if it can be regained 100%. I’m going to be honest I have trust issues particularly with men most of this comes from the way I’ve been treated in the past by other men. I may truly want to trust again but in the back of my mind I will always be wondering if he is lying to me about whatever he is telling me. To me, trust is like crystal, its very fragile and once it broken you might be able to repair it but it will never ever be the same. This is just my opinion and I would love to hear wha others think about this subject.
Tey, Great to hear from you. You know your input is always welcome here. I, like you, would love to hear what others’ thoughts are on the subject of “trust.” Can it ever be restored or merely repaired? What steps can be taken to rebuild the trust factor? I do believe, with God’s help and the other person’s willingness to change mixed with accountability, it is possible. Maybe it the relationship could become even stronger. We will most definitely continue to explore this topic on “Solo.”
I have been absent from this site for quite some time so I was just checking to see what’s new. Anyway I have been dating this man for about two months and I had to put this comment under the trust heading because I’m having trust issues with this peron and I’m trying to figure out whether my mistrust in him is justified or am I carrying isues over from previous relationships. I’m trying to make it work but as I aid before trust is everything to me. I have prayed over this situation but I have yet to hear from the Lord so that’s where I am. I hope all is well with you and the others that are reading and commenting on this site. look forward to your response and other as well. I think we can all learn from each other, until next time be blessed
Tey